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THE "HOME-AWAY-FROM-HOME" SETTLES IN THE MIDWEST
Rabbi Garfinkel, originally from northern California, and his wife Suri who grew up in Brooklyn have dedicated their lives to Jewish outreach. Rabbi Garfinkel grew up in a very nurturing Jewish family, went to Sunday School and High Holiday services, and lived a typical American Jewish life. "Achieving success at school was clearly the most important goal," he remembers, "being Jewish was important, but my friends and I never had a clear idea of what that meant besides a general notion of being nice to others." In high school, Rabbi Garfinkel traveled to Israel with his Confirmation Class and recalls, "I knew then that there was much more to learn about being Jewish." The pressures of high school resumed and only after his Freshman year at Stanford University on his second trip to Israel did he begin to explore Judaism seriously. "I then returned to my sophomore year at Stanford loving being Jewish and yet confronted with life on campus and in a non-Jewish fraternity." After his sophomore year, Rabbi Garfinkel took time off from Stanford to study in Israel for two years. "My parents thought I would never come home, and they were elated when I returned to finish my degree." Upon graduation, Rabbi Garfinkel returned to rabbinic school in Israel, studied for two years, met his lovely wife, Suri, and continued his rabbinic studies in Jerusalem for six more years before returning to do Jewish outreach on campus at UCLA. Mrs. Suri Garfinkel grew up in a Torah observant household in Brooklyn, NY and studied advanced Jewish studies in Israel for two years after high school. In her third year, she was chosen to be a peer counselor in the women's college to help the new students in their stay in Israel. Upon marriage, Suri was hired by her women's college to teach and to be a faculty counselor. She gained invaluable experience relating to students' issues and emotional needs. "Going to do outreach on a college campus was not even on my radar screen when I first went to Israel," she recalls, "yet after seeing what an incredible difference a warm, loving Jewish home can make in the lives of Jewish students, I was hooked!" Mrs. Garfinkel balances work on campus with being a mother of her four beautiful daughters, Tehilla age 8, Rachelli age 6, Ariella age 4, and Adina age 2. "We feel very blessed that our children's love for Shabbos and being Jewish has made a deep impression on our students," Suri remarks, "many students don't have a warm and loving Jewish home so they become part of ours." Suri learns and mentors Jewish college women making weekly "coffee-dates" and teaching them her famous challah recipe. "The guys complained that they were left out of the challah baking," she smiled, "so we started co-ed challah baking!" |